Guys, you probably have more than a few misconceptions about women. In this article I hope to debunk some of the most common myths that men hold in regards to women.
Women don’t like or enjoy sex as much as you do
Is there anyone who still believes this? Read an issue of Cosmopolitan or watch an episode of Sex and the City, and you’ll know whats up. When you’re fighting hard for that tiny little bang (which is supposed to be your orgasm) while your girl has just gone off for the third time in a row, it makes you wonder who really enjoys sex more, right?
Whenever you go out, keep this in mind: The girl you’re talking to wants to have sex every bit as much as you do. Its just that she needs more time to relax and lose her inhibitions, because society is likely to label a more sexually active girl a whore. Just provide the circumstances in which she can feel comfortable in your company, and the rest is guaranteed.
Women don’t like porn and aren’t turned on by visual triggers
Theres an urban legend that women don’t like to watch porn — well, my friend, its time to blow that one out of the water. The fact is they DO like to watch porn — its just that they wont admit it. According to my girlfriends and countless other women I’ve asked, upon seeing a new man, a woman always looks at his ass first — and even librarian types will sneak a second or third glance. I’ve talked to several of the call girls who work at the MyAsianEscorts service and they all agree.
Although women tend to be more attuned to their other senses — sounds and smells — than men, visual triggers are just as important to them. Your girlfriend will occasionally watch a porn flick when shes horny, although she wont spend an hour every day searching for sex on Google.
Women like badass machos who are rough and don’t show any emotion
Its a common misconception in our society that men should be as badass as Chuck Norris and never cry or show any emotion. If you think this is the key to getting laid, then I hate to be the one to break it to you, but being badass wont make you a man.
A man is confident and knows how to lead a woman and how to make decisions. But a man should also be passionate and capable of showing emotion toward a woman.
Would you prefer a teddy bear to a real, live girl? Just as you like it when your girlfriend gives you a kiss or caresses your face, she also likes to feel the same kindness from you.
Women need a lot of freedom, and they hate to be controlled
Don’t be afraid to show emotion and tenderness when you’re with a girl — but please be careful not to become a wimp and lose control. A woman likes to be controlled by a strong man to a certain degree, and to keep her, you must be prepared to give her your own special brand of tough love. This even includes escorts. You might think a call girl is independent as can be, but in my experience with ladies at the VegasFantasyBabes escort service in Sin City, that just isn’t the case.
A girl likes to feel secure and likes to have a guy who is able to protect her. But how can she feel secure that you can provide for her properly if you let her take control? Taking control might feel nice to her the first time she does it. But after a while, she finds it increasingly boring and tiresome.
A woman does need freedom, but at the same time, she likes to be taken care of. Thus, a man who knows how walk that thin line between giving her enough space and making all her decisions for her will be very attractive to a woman.
You need to become a player and develop serious game to attract women
To attract women, you don’t need any fancy techniques or skills. What you DO need is to learn how to take care of yourself and dress properly, to develop certain social skills, to live your life with passion (note that passion doesnt have to mean bungee jumping; you can be passionate about everyday things too) and to loosen up and be yourself around women. See this Psychology Today article for more info.
If you’re starting from ZERO, theres a learning curve you’ll have to go through. Most important, you need to approach and talk to many women before you can actually come out of your shell and be your true self. Interacting with many women is also key to finding your Manliness, which you may have been pressured to hide by society and/or your upbringing.
Let go of societal pressure to have a girlfriend, and you’ll see that she comes to you when you least expect her.